The Woman on the Bike

June of 2012, I woke up on a Monday morning and had a dialogue with myself probably similar to this. "Hey, you. Stop being a putz and saying you can't ride a bike. You haven't even tried riding for a long time. Stop questioning your capabilities and just try it!"

I bought my "first" bike that Friday. It was a used, homely as all-get-out Fuji hybrid. You can see for yourself, it's a pretty ugly duckling bike.

However, when I rode it I felt confident and I felt comfortable with how it handled. Ugly or not, it was my bike. I rode my bike to work. I rode my bike on the paved trail. I loved riding my bike because it gave me a sense of freedom I hadn't had in years.

Eventually this bike opened up my mind and heart, and I found out that I needed to divorce my then-husband. Our marriage was over and had been over for about 5 years, but neither of us were strong enough at the time do to anything about it. My confidence from riding eventually gave me the confidence to make a difference in my life.


It was a do or die moment, because I caught a glimpse of something that could provide me something so needed. A person to spend time with me, be there with me, and go on bike rides with me. A person to share my life with vs. living side-by-side a couple days a week.

I saw a future.

The bike shop guy aka Travis, encouraged my love of riding bikes. I also became a poster child for all things bike. (New bike, anyone?)


It's not to say that my first year with Travis went without a hitch. Would you believe I had two bike biffs within two weeks of each other? The first biff happened on my new commuter bike, Athena (a blacked out Karate Monkey) and the second biff happened when we were going to go out street riding with a friend of ours. You can see from the photo, I had seen better days.

I had a concussion, stitches in my chin, and some minor buffing done to my nose and lip. It was an experience, that's for sure. However it didn't keep me off the bike, oh heck no.




During the winter I experienced the fun of going fatbiking with some friends of mine. It was a liberating and fun experience to go out with a couple girlfriends and look like badasses out in the snowy tundra. It was an accomplishment all of its own.

I was a woman doing something I loved, and that's all that mattered.

I never realized a bike would change so much of my life, give me so much confidence in myself and with life. All I wanted was to use my car less prove to myself that I really could do it.

Not only did I find out I could do it, I found out that I wasn't terrible at riding. I also found the courage to make another change in my life, and the heart to try love again. For me, a bicycle gives me freedom. For me riding is a lifestyle and just part of who I am. I live for the #BikeLife!

Bicycles hold so much power within them, you really never know until you get on one and go for a ride. Something clicks in your mind, heart, and soul; a feeling of happiness, freedom, and joy all wrapped into one! I write this as a person who used to hate how a bicycle made me feel: insecure, inadequate, and slow. I took some time, but I’ve come to terms with the child of yesteryear and now she can say she really loves riding bikes and they can truly change your life.


Now, I'm taking it a step further and working at Decorah Bicycles. It was a literal leap into a "new career" that scared me but also gave me hope. I know not every person looking for a bike will have a similar story to myself, but the thought of helping someone find their personal freedom excites me.




It's special to be a woman in a very male-dominated industry. I've always been someone who thought there was "something more" for me to be doing. Breaking down barriers, helping people find their #bikelife, and taking away some of the "mystery" surrounding the bike shop.


Interviews or Personal Stories Shared:
An interview with Dianne of Detournement
Story shared to Pedal Love-Love at First Bike
Breathing Happy Blog- Learning that "I Can"
Breathing Happy Blog- Conquering My Fears of Rejection
Bike League/Women Bike- How Bicycling Healed My Heart
Angela and I-Roads to Recovery
Dig In- Learning to Ride, Lead and Inspire
Dig In- The Joys and Perils of Riding Alone and With Others
Dig In- Starting Over On Snow, And Loving It
Dig In- Crash Stories, Part 1
Dig In- Fat Bikes, Mid-Race Hot Dog and Determination: A First MTB Race Story
Dig In- Why Race?
Dig In- Even New Mountain Bikers Can Welcome Others Into The Fold
Dig In- First Time for Every Ride
Our Bodies, Our Bikes- Divorce By Bike
Imagine Northeast Iowa- Pen Name: JosieLeah

Featured on:
Case of the Nomads- Fire in Their Eyes
Driftward Press- April Print
Girl Eats Bike/Joy Ride Podcast- Episode009
Des Moines Register Adventure Iowa:
Go For A Ride on Decorah's Mountain Bike Trails
Hit Decorah's Mountain Bike Trails
Decorah's Hills Promise Glory For Off-Road Riders




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